Given the tag description
Tag for asking for recommendations on resources (such as books), programming languages and more related to programming
most of what the tag describes is explicitly declared as being off-topic for P.SE.
Based on that, I agree that the tag should be removed.
The Help Center's page about what can be asked here has a list of types questions that are not allowed, even if they fall into one of the things that are considered on-topic here:
Some questions, even if they appear to fit into one of the above
categories, may still be off-topic or a poor fit for this format:
explaining, writing or debugging ...
If you sufficiently describe your scenario and requirements (functional and quality attributes) and can demonstrate that you have done some background research into your options, I don't see why it wouldn't be on-topic. However, if your constraints aren't enough, it could stray into primarily opinion based (if we can't say for sure that one option is ...