In response to my question being placed on hold I would like to add:
My question exhibits many of the relevant qualities of a good subjective question , including: A, B, D, E ...
"Some subjective questions are allowed, but “subjective” does not mean “anything goes”. All subjective questions are expected to be constructive. What does that mean? Constructive subjective questions:
[a.] inspire answers that explain “why” and “how” [b.] tend to have long, not short, answers [c.] have a constructive, fair, and impartial tone [d.] invite sharing experiences over opinions [e.] insist that opinion be backed up with facts and references [f.] are more than just mindless social fun For more detail, read about our guidelines for great subjective questions and blog post about how real questions have answers."
( https://softwareengineering.stackexchange.com/help/dont-ask)
In the spirit of this maxim:
"even a subjective Stack Overflow is better than the alternatives"
( http://blog.stackoverflow.com/2010/09/good-subjective-bad-subjective/ )
I would like the question reopened.
Respondants, please review before posting:
The Programmers site is constantly subjected to unreasonably subjective questions. In this same scenario, when the forum topic tends towards this entropy, the clear minds of the Moms group came up with some simple , VERY simple guidelines for answering such questions.
"The folks at Moms4mom owned up to the subjective issue and came up with a set of principles to create useful subjective discussions on parenting: the Back It Up! Principle. Back It Up! means that your answers must be based on either:
Something that happened to you personally Something you can back up with a reference"
Please try to follow this guideline before shooting off rapid fire replies.
And remember the goal is to move forward with this maxim:
"even a subjective Stack Overflow is better than the alternatives"
it is why we are all here!