Yeah it sounds like overreaction but there are always some genuine questions which may not have genuine answer but may have collection of answers to satisfy the questioner.
Your question is legitimate and appropriate for a discussion forum, Reddit or Slashdot but we actively discourage such open ended broad questions here. We are looking to build a site around peer reviewed, specific questions, within the scope of the FAQ and have clear concise peer reviewed answers that actually address the problem with facts or experiences.
Your question is good, but it will invite a lot of really bad answers and a lot of conflicting answers.
I think PHP Framework X is the BEST!
I think PHP Framework Y is the BEST!
Then how does that help you? You might think the one with the highest votes is the correct answer but in fact the one with the highest votes is the most popular framework. That doesn't really help anybody make the best framework choice for their specific situation and that is what we mean when we say a question becomes a poll. We are a Q&A site, not SurveyMonkey.
I don't mean to call them bully, but some people cannot help themselves to surf around and hit the close button as fast as they could.
You can't speak for what is in other peoples hearts and minds. You can't claim to know what they are thinking. There are bullies on every site as in every aspect of life, and just for the sake of argument lets say that 1 out of 5 people on this site happens to be a bully (I am guessing on the high side).
It still takes 5 people to close the question so if one bully closed it for the lulz, then you can only assume the other 4 had a very good reason to. Don't worry about the bully or the quick close vote, why did 4 other people decide to close and downvote?
I am positive about SE and people here who are here to help.
Most of us are here to help and we want to welcome new users. The challenge for us is explaining to new users like yourself HOW we are different and WHY we are different than any other site out there. When new users get frustrated or angry then I feel like we have failed in explaining.
Please don't take downvotes and close votes as a personal attack or insult. It is the way that we rank content and nothing more. It only becomes an issue if it is a repetitive habit. Furthermore we do take bullying seriously. There are algorithms in place to identify, reverse and punish those that target users with downvotes and close votes. Downvotes and close votes should be directed at content and not people.